Hello everyone,
So sorry that it has been a while.Anyway,this time around we promise to update you with vital tips on child care and lots more.just...............keep your fingers crossed
Dear parents,please take sometime to read and consider the following;
IF YOUR CHILD LIES TO YOU OFTEN,IT IS BECAUSE YOU OVERREACT TO THEIR INAPPROPRAITE BEHAVIOUR.
IF YOUR CHILD IS NOT TAUGHT TO CONFIDE IN YOU ABOUT THEIR MISTAKES,YOU HAVE LOST THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD HAD POOR SELF ESTEEM,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ADVISE THEM MORE THAN YOU ENCOURAGE THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES NOT STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES,IT IS BECAUSE FROM A YOUNG AGE,YOU HAVE DISCIPLINED THEM REGULARLY IN THE PUBLIC.
IF YOUR CHILD TAKES THINGS THAT DO NOT BELONG TO THEM,IT IS BECAUSE WHEN YOU BUY THEM THINGS,YOU DON'T LET THEM CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT.
IF YOUR CHILD IS COWARDLY,IT IS BECAUSE YOU HELP THEM TOO QUICKLY.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES NOT RESPECT OTHER PEOPLES'S FEELING,IT IS BECAUSE INSTEAD OF SPEAKING TO YOUR CHILD,YOU ORDER AND COMMAND THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD IS TOO QUICK TO ANGER,IT IS BECAUSE YOU GIVE TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO MISBEHAVIOUR AND YOU GIVE LITTLE ATTENTION TO GOOD BEHAVIOUR.
IF YOU CHILD IS EXCEEDINGLY JEALOUS,IT IS BECUSE YOU ONLY CONGRATULATE THEM WHEN THEY SUCESSFULLY COMPLETE SOMETHING AND NOT WHEN THEY IMPROVE AT SOMETHING EVEN IF THEY DON'T SUCESSFULLY COMPLETE IT.
IF YOUR CHILD INTENTIONALLY DISTURBS YOU,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT PHYSICALLY AFFECTIONATE ENOUGH.
I F YOU CHILD IS OPENLY DEFIED,IT IS BECAUSE YOU OPENLY THREATEN TO DO SOMETHING BUT DON'T FOLLOW THROUGH.
IF YOUR CHILD IS TOO SECRETIVE,IT IS BECAUSE THEY DON'T TRUST THAT YOU WILL BLOW THINGS OUT OF PROPORTION.
IF YOUR CHILD TALKS BACK AT YOU,IT IS BECAUSE THEY WATCH YOU DO IT TO OTHERS AND THINK IT IS A NORMAL BEHAVIOUR.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES'NT LISTEN TO YOU BUT LISTENS TO OTHERS,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE TOO QUICK TO MAKE DECISIONS.
IF YOU CHILD REBELS, IT IS BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU CARE MORE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK THAN WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG.
IF YOUR CHILD IS NOT TAUGHT TO CONFIDE IN YOU ABOUT THEIR MISTAKES,YOU HAVE LOST THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD HAD POOR SELF ESTEEM,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ADVISE THEM MORE THAN YOU ENCOURAGE THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES NOT STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES,IT IS BECAUSE FROM A YOUNG AGE,YOU HAVE DISCIPLINED THEM REGULARLY IN THE PUBLIC.
IF YOUR CHILD TAKES THINGS THAT DO NOT BELONG TO THEM,IT IS BECAUSE WHEN YOU BUY THEM THINGS,YOU DON'T LET THEM CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT.
IF YOUR CHILD IS COWARDLY,IT IS BECAUSE YOU HELP THEM TOO QUICKLY.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES NOT RESPECT OTHER PEOPLES'S FEELING,IT IS BECAUSE INSTEAD OF SPEAKING TO YOUR CHILD,YOU ORDER AND COMMAND THEM.
IF YOUR CHILD IS TOO QUICK TO ANGER,IT IS BECAUSE YOU GIVE TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO MISBEHAVIOUR AND YOU GIVE LITTLE ATTENTION TO GOOD BEHAVIOUR.
IF YOU CHILD IS EXCEEDINGLY JEALOUS,IT IS BECUSE YOU ONLY CONGRATULATE THEM WHEN THEY SUCESSFULLY COMPLETE SOMETHING AND NOT WHEN THEY IMPROVE AT SOMETHING EVEN IF THEY DON'T SUCESSFULLY COMPLETE IT.
IF YOUR CHILD INTENTIONALLY DISTURBS YOU,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT PHYSICALLY AFFECTIONATE ENOUGH.
I F YOU CHILD IS OPENLY DEFIED,IT IS BECAUSE YOU OPENLY THREATEN TO DO SOMETHING BUT DON'T FOLLOW THROUGH.
IF YOUR CHILD IS TOO SECRETIVE,IT IS BECAUSE THEY DON'T TRUST THAT YOU WILL BLOW THINGS OUT OF PROPORTION.
IF YOUR CHILD TALKS BACK AT YOU,IT IS BECAUSE THEY WATCH YOU DO IT TO OTHERS AND THINK IT IS A NORMAL BEHAVIOUR.
IF YOUR CHILD DOES'NT LISTEN TO YOU BUT LISTENS TO OTHERS,IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE TOO QUICK TO MAKE DECISIONS.
IF YOU CHILD REBELS, IT IS BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU CARE MORE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK THAN WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG.
